Being a CarePartner for my husband has definitely made me stretch and rethink my capabilities on numerous occasions. Who knew I could wield an axe and split firewood? (My father was a lumberjack; he would be proud.) And, while it wasn’t something I thought I would like, there are days when that exertion is really a great way to let go of pent-up stress and frustration.

When I am facing a new challenge, I try to be open to the possibility and take a chance. If I allow myself the opportunity to succeed, I may develop a new skill. I will definitely find out something new about my own capacities. Even if I fail, at least I know I tried and can better determine the help I need to finish the job.

In the example of the firewood, I quickly learned what my limitations are. I can chop smaller pieces of wood with a hatchet and can do some medium chunks with the axe, but the larger pieces need to go elsewhere. I have neighbors with fireplaces and they are more than happy to respond to my “free firewood” signs. The bottom line is that had I not tried, I would have missed a great opportunity for personal growth and some wonderful winter fires.