It’s okay to ask for what you need, but know you may not always get it.

We have been snowed or iced in at our house for several days now and it is starting to get to me. I am sleeping well, but still feel tired thanks to the seemingly never-ending cold outside. I feel like I should be working on tasks that I normally wouldn’t have time for, but my motivation is at an all time low. I don’t even find pleasure in reading right now, I think my eyes and brain are read out. I find myself looking up at the sky and calling out to Mother Nature to just give us a break!

So today, as we start our 6th day of isolation, I turned to my husband and asked for what we like to call “a grunge day”. No showers, minimal meals and a simplified schedule. He agreed knowing that he can do what he wants, but I plan to take as much of a break from our regular routine as I can. I don’t know what I will do instead, I just need some respite.  

I am still stuck in the house, hoping for a reprieve by the end of the day. I just want to know that I have the option to go somewhere, whether I actually go or not. My husband heard what I needed from him and said yes, let’s hope Mother Nature does the same.

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