Find things to look forward to in your life, a mini-vacation or even a day trip somewhere. Having positive activities in your future helps keep you moving in a positive way.

When we were first together, we decided not to let our relationship get boring or stale. One of the techniques we used were bi-monthly surprise getaways. One month he would plan a night or a weekend away, then 6 weeks later I would plan something. It was so much fun as we explored local options and even discovered some treasures at the beach or up the gorge. It definitely helped us keep things fresh and fun, and there was always another little getaway coming, something to look forward to.

Unfortunately, as often happens, life became complicated and our opportunities to getaway became fewer and farther between, we became homebodies. Then, he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease. How would this impact our ability to travel and what would it mean to our future?

What we have learned is that PD only impacts us to the extent that we let it. We have to make modifications and allow for a few more rest stops along the way, but we are still making our plans. There may come a time when actual vacations become too difficult and all of our experiences become day trips, we will still do what we can to get out and enjoy our lives. At any rate, we will keep planning and taking those little adventures because we all need something to look forward to and the positive anticipation motivates us to keep on going. 

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