I had a unique opportunity this past week when my husband asked me to transfer some old photos from DVD’s to a hard drive. I knew they were pictures from our early years together but had no idea what I would actually find nor the emotions they would produce. It was like opening a door to the time we shared pre-Parkinson’s and it was wonderful.

There were photos of our wedding that I hadn’t seen in years. In those pictures I saw a couple who shared strength, resolve, determination, and a dedication to each other and to their relationship. We were ready to take on anything the world might throw at us. There were photos of extended family from gatherings and birthday celebrations and lots of pictures from trips, both far away and local. I found pictures of our pets; what a menagerie we’ve had. The pictures showed us living a life that looks nothing like today. I discovered a treasure chest of memories of the life we have shared that reminded me exactly why I am here today.

More than anything else those photos showed me the amazing man who agreed to marry me and the commitment we made to each other. My husband, the man in all those photos and the man I fell in love with, is still here. Our relationship may have changed but it continues to be just as important to both of us. We came together to share in life’s adventures and it’s challenges; this diagnosis is just one more thing we get to face together. As long as he is here and fully committed to us and to the fight, how can I not be? I’ve got this.